marriage. wow. i loike.

assalaaaamualaikum!

hye everyone :)

i have one good news :

last week, ade one guy, jumpa parents i, and blar blar blar~

i'm gonna married!!!!!!1



okay.


wait...


like..seriously???



like married? real married?






ooooo kayyyyy.........


wait.

sekarang ni, tak payah nak terkejut sangat la kalau dengar perbualan macam kat atas ni..okay?

hmm...sorry la, tapi, i memang gila awkward bila dengar cerita budak sebaya i nak kawen, like, we're just 18 maaannn.. why rush?

bukan setakat awkward, but funny too.. :D

i tak cakap pon benda tu tidak elok, tetapi, i rasa makin lama, parents sekarang makin cuai untuk mempertimbangkan semua faktor luaran dan dalaman sekali regarding their children's marriage...

firstly, yang tak tahu, buat buat tahu ye... bahawa, sekarang ni, banyak terjadinya kahwin awal.

i tengah cakap pasal budak budak yang kahwin awal ni,

mulanya, i just like, bila dengar pasal dena bahrin tu, yang dilamar waktu die umur 19 tu, and die mula mula rasa die sangat muda untuk berkahwin waktu tu, but eventually, die rase it's just good to married early, untuk mengelakkan maksiat and bercinta selepas kahwin apa semua. anddd, i memang setuju tu.

and lepas tu, jadi macam ternding pulak, budak semua nak kahwin awal...but i what i saw is, they have really different situations.

i know..i tak tawu pon pasal hidup diorang.. i ni bukan sesapa..but someone should realize this.

adakah lelaki yang nak kahwin dengan awak tu dah sedia dari segi zahir? i tawula, batin tu memang dah kompom kan? walaupun family die kaya...die tak tentu lagi boleh sara u..okay. lainla kalau die boleh amek alih bisnes mak bapak die..itu lain. so, ni la point paling penting : sebaiknya, pompuan yang muda mudi macam i yang nak kahwin sekarang ni, baik pilih lelaki yang dah kerja kaan walaupun kerja cikgu... stable and matured :)

second... u should prepare yourself, kahwin buka benda main main, nanti gaduh, i nak cerai la apelah..so be matured please sebelum nak kahwin tu... u bukan nak kahwin 2 3 tahun je ye makcik. it's for a life time. u gonna face him every day..and please, kalau still rasa jiwa belum puas untuk single, please, jangan try. u can't look for some other guys soon. u tak boleh gatai dah nak usya mane mane mamat dah lepas ni especially yang belum matang. macam i.
ihik.
and bila u dah kahwin, u kena control rasa jaelous. ni bukan nak zaman kapel kapel yang korang selau buat tu, jaelous..break. couple balik, break..
seriously, TAH PAPE.
so, please be matured dalam hubungan. kalau nak kahwin awal. it's just not about sex. it's about you sharing your life with somebody else..hmmph.

i think, tu je KOT yang penting setakat ni..... kalau ade, i'll top up soon. tapi yang paling penting, yang number 1 tu. money. muahahaha.

p/s : ihik! for now.. i better focus on my studies..

i wish that my husband can guide me to a better path..sebenarnya..kalau u all pikir, it's our shortcut to heaven. to make it clear..money is not everything.. but his imaaan is everything and i really hope that my guy is not handsome. not rich in money but rich in imaan and Allah in him :),
by that i will be the best wife to him. insyaAllah:)