menangis? salah.
but, it's good to cry. actually tak salah, tapi kurang tepat. menangis hanya boleh redakan perasaan sedih, atau kekusutan dalam otak kita. tapi still tak boleh selesaikan masalah.
ramai orang. kita dengar kawan kita cerita. kita tengok dalam tv, kita bace dalam novel.
'dia terus meluru masuk ke biliknya, menghempas pintu biliknya sekuat hati agar dapat melepas gelodak jiwanya, pintunya dikunci. lalu kakinya terus memainkan lagu scott stap kegemarannya, ditinggikan volume pemain mp3 itu sekuat yang boleh. biar bergegar seluruh biliknya. tubuhnya dihenyak ke atas katil penjuru biliknya. tangannya menggenggam bantal sekuat hati dan "aaaaarrrgggggghhhhh" biar. biar dia menjerit semahu mahunya. air mata perlahan mengalir ke pipi'
bila kita tension, menangis, pasang lagu kuat nak mampos satu taman boleh dengar, las las kita sendiri tak sedar bila kita tertidur, tak semayang tak ape, pagi bangon, pikir balik masalah tu. yela, bukan selesai pon lagi kan? tension balik, tidur balik, bangon tension balik...ulang ulang and ulang..
senario yang memang selalu kita dengar kunun kalau tension buat camtu. memang la setiap orang ade bende yang akan dye buat kalau tension. cara melepas tension tu berbeza. ade yang kalau pesen liar tu pi masuk keluar club, menari, minum tu tengokla jugak, ade je masuk club order coke, tapi kira cam tak jatuh standard ke masuk club minum coke je..malu jaa.haha
Moreover, even though they know that they cannot enjoy themselves as they would like to, they do not want to understand that their problem comes from their lack of belief. They look for the solution in other forms of entertainment, but without success. Regardless of where they go, they encounter the same anxiety, tension, and boredom. Even if they seem to be enjoying themselves from an observer’s point of view, from what we have said, it’s clear that they can find no spiritual contentment or tranquility. (Those Who Exhaust All Their Pleasures in This Life, Harun Yahya)
ade yang menangis, mengadu kat kawan, mengadu kat laki.. ade yang tulis diary.haha. haa, ade jugak yang mengadu kat blog *terasa* ade jugak yang dah jauh, dah sesat, dah putus asa and telan whatever pill depan mata, sampaikan nak bunuh diri..
tapi. tapi. tu semua hanya untuk melepas geram, lepas marah, lepas sedih. then what? yes. kalau korang boleh rase happy, tu pon sekejap je.
i memang tak tawu ape penyelesaian dalam masalah korang. masalah lain lain. break couple. mak ayah bercerai. study down. banyak. terlalu banyak masalah.
but, believe me, korang tak akan rase sedih bila guna mata hati korang and sedar. bahawa, life's a test. it's not a thing that we can enjoy. memang kita boleh menikmati semua apa yang kita ade dalam dunia ni but with thanks. to Him. so, life, indeed will be so hard. test, test and test. but He's still with you. just that. He's with you. and He's gonna help you. IF you remember Him. just kalau korang sandarkan semua kepada Dia.
so, my advice.. you don't need all of those entertainment to entertain you in order to relief your pain. just open the Quran. and read it. and understand it. understand it. bace la tafsir ke ape. just understand Him. respect Him. and hope for Him. just that. insyaAllah:)
